Why Women Are Wearing a Chapel Veil Again

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  1. Karen says:

    The only reason any woman covers her head in church is that she believes, like the Catholic Church taught for centuries, that she is an inferior piece of garbage whose existence distracts the important people — males — from God. It is exactly like a burqua in that only doormats would ever consider it.

    • Birgit J says:

      So many people simply refuse to understand that it is a woman with strength of conviction who veils. She is honored and revered by both Church and morally sound men. My husband is such a man.I choose this devotion myself, for reasons of profound faith. I love my Lord Jesus Christ and my Catholic Faith.

    • Mary Barbara says:

      The Church veils the sacred – the altar, the Tabernacle, the chalice, and the heads of her women who are living tabernacles of Catholics to come. As God made his creation he started with the basic, and each day the creation got more special. God’s last creation, and most special (and sacred) was woman. We have a very important (more superior if you prefer) place in God’s creation, plan, and church. This is just one of the many reasons why I choose to veil.

    • Linda says:

      Not at all. Theologically it a privilege that women may cover themselves in the Presence of God. It is a sign of privilege not submission.

      • karenjo12 says:

        Then why don’t men cover their heads?

        • Birgit J says:

          The Bible and the Church have always taught that men and women are beautifully different, yet complimentary and equal in value. Therefore we have practices unique to our gender. Men are to be noble, masculine, and respectful in their demeanor. This lead to the practice of removing their hats when in the church or when greeting a lady. Women, on the other hand, are feminine, modest, and respectful in accordance to their characteristics. We veil, not in submission of men but in respect and homage to God.

          In response to one of your comments I chose not to publish, we veil because one of our gifts is the ability to cooperate with God in the creation of new life. Not only while we are bearing a child, but all the time. We are always proud of our gift of feminine uniqueness.

          @karen, I will continue to discuss with you as long as you are civil and genuine in your desire to converse. The comments that are less than civil, however, will not be approved. Thank you for understanding.

          • karenjo12 says:

            I will try to be civil. Please define what you mean by “feminine?” For example, is it feminine for a woman to have a profession other than housewife? Is it feminine to use our intelligence? How does that work, because I was always taught that it was insulting to men for women to be openly intelligent. We had to ‘veil’ our intellect or men would get their feelings hurt. How is it feminine to express our intellect?

          • Birgit J says:

            Thank you! Feminine genius comes to mind. Yes, it is feminine to use every gift God has given us as long as it is for good. Intellect, talents, skills, athleticism, etc. We women are an entire package made up of our own unique abilities – all of which we have the power to use and perfect. Women can be doctors, lawyers, architects, athletes, and mothers – or a combination of any of these. My own daughter-in-law is a dentist and mom of 4. Our daughter is a molecular biologist and mother of two. The first works and parents. The second has chosen to stay home and educate her own children. Both are blessings in their own way.

            On the other side of the coin, it can also be masculine to love and nurture children as a father. To help with household operation and cooking. We are a team. This is how my husband and I choose to live. I help him with his career and he works with me in our home. We should all be comfortable within our own circumstances and do our best to give our best.

        • Gerry Wright says:

          Obviously you have never met or seen an Amish or Orthodox Jewish Gentleman.

        • too hopeful says:

          because Paul said they didn’t have to.

    • Phil Steinacker says:

      Wow! You clearly have no clue about the historic, spiritual purpose behind veiling. Moreover, your obviously angry feminist rhetoric betrays zero awareness of its biblical roots, but your knowledge of scripture is most likely grounded in a surface reading without extensive study and reflection of the bible. Leftists critiquing scripture engage in “proof-texting” to make their arguments but finding verses they can attack as not comporting with modernist understanding and application of what seems to their fevered but limited imaginations to be egregious examples of so-called sexism and female slavery.

      You operate in the blissful ignorance of someone who has never studied scripture in depth on its own terms, and therefore clearly does not know how to read or interpret scripture one iota.

      • karenjo12 says:

        So show me where I’m wrong. Where does the Bible support women in professions? Having economic and political power?

        • Marietta says:

          Well,

          Deborah was a judge. (Judges 4:5) She held court beneath a date palm tree between Ramah in Benjamin and Bethel in the land of Ephraim.

          Shiphrah and Puah were midwives who saved many newly-born male babies by defying the Egyptian kings’ order that baby boys must be killed.(Exodus 1:15)

          Huldah was a prophet. (2 Chronicles 34:22)

          Lydia was a businesswoman (Acts 16:14)

          Priscilla was a tentmaker (Romans 16:3; Acts 18:3).

          Phoebe was a deaconess (Romans 16:1-2)

          The unnamed woman in Proverbs 31:10-31 fashioned and supplied belts, garments, and coverlets to merchants in the marketplace and with the profit, she bought her own vineyard, managed the winemaking business and her household, too. And was also a philanthropist.

    • Marietta says:

      I like wearing a veil to Mass for the sake of the angels.

      For the sake of the angels – what a beautiful reason to wear a mantilla! I’m happy to be in the company of angels at Mass, so for their sake, I cover my head.

      Check it out: 1 Corinthians 11:10

    • Amy M Teutenberg says:

      Actually if you want to make it about feminism i started doing it shortly after the me too movement to assert that women are not sexual objects solely for mens gratification but who should be should respect as we are all temples of the holy spirit. Wearing the veil for me reminds me of my worth and value as a woman and for me sends a clear message to men how i wish to be treated.

    • Nonna Mouse says:

      Troll much, Karen?

    • Maria Kelly says:

      Totally not true and quite an insult to yourself and all women, most especially our Mother, the Ever Virgin Mary who wore a an inner veil, an outer veil and a head covering. Karen, you have fallen for the lies of the world over the heavenly truth. May Our Most Pure Mother of God restore your soul and grant you many blessings! Amen

    • April Morning says:

      I have a graduate degree and have directed multiple men in my profession over the years. I veil because of the theological reasons already stated, and because it changes my experience of the Mass. It helps me to focus mentally and increases my feelings of peace and reverence. The Catholic Church does not and has never taught that women are “inferior pieces of garbage”.

  2. St. Monica says:

    Let’s make this about faith and not feminism.

  3. Mary says:

    A former teacher who raised 4 children, I love to wear a veil for many reasons but one reason heretofore not mentioned , is because my face is shielded from distractions . I enter mass to worship and pray, not to socialize or be seen . Often the
    transcendant beauty of aspects of Holy Mass coupled with the prayers of my heart lead me to tears. I like the privacy of the veil. After Mass I remove it outside and socialize. Thank you .

    • SouthCoast says:

      I am a convert who has chosen to veil. I am also a retired engineer. I veil to remind myself Whose house I’m in, and as an act of humility which, as my former co-workers would loudly and readily confess, has never been my strong suit. Make of it what you will: the choice is mine.

  4. James Steele says:

    Women ought to veil because the Holy Writ tells them that they ought to. Further, it reflects God’s design for women to have hidden, modest roles in society and Liturgy, as opposed to men’s visible, outward roles (cf. Gaudium et Spes Para. 52). Men and women aren’t the same: women weren’t made for leadership roles; men were. As such, it is fitting that women cover themselves with a veil as a visible reminder of feminine modesty. Bossy harridans turn everyone’s stomach, whether you admit it or not. Sick of the forced joyful tone exalting the greatness of women all the time as a precondition for reminding them of their place in the world in a pusillanimous tone. What we need is someone to give a sober, candid reminder of women’s God-given role in society.

  5. James Steele says:

    Because the Bible says so. Nuff said.

  6. too hopeful says:

    what is the big deal? some females want to wear them for their own personal reasons. and women that don’t, so what. Age, tradition , and teaching, – of the family, catholic upbringing, and culture of the times – there is no wrong or right. so get over it. P. S I veil , so what no one cares… ( but the veiled.)

  7. Maryann M Srbljan says:

    I wear a veil. I used to attend the tlm and now at a conservative NO. I would not agree with you karenjo 12. I’ve very independent. I’m also a retired firefighter and worked with men most of my adult life. I’m also a consecrated virgin. I wear mine because I received the veil at the hand of my archbishop. Many different reasons to wear one.

    • elizdelphi says:

      I started wearing one a little less than 2 years ago when my bishop promoted it at Mass, saying we veil things that are sacred and women are sacred so women should wear a veil, and wouldn’t society be better if women were regarded as sacred. Also present was another woman parishioner whom he was soon going to make a consecrated virgin. He may have meant her to take the message and decide to wear a veil at Mass, I was the only person who began to do so. I had already wanted to wear one but the bishop saying that made me finally believe it would really be okay. Jesus called me to be single hearted for Him in chaste celibacy for life, to call me back to the Church, a dozen years ago now (this was through growth in prayer and the influence of St John of the Cross and St Teresa of Avila) but I am a never married woman that to my profound shame is not a virgin and I found that because He is perfectly holy I am unworthy of Jesus the Bridegroom Whom I once betrayed. I witness to Him in tears and penance. It’s not women in general, but consecrated virgins who are formally regarded as sacred persons, The neighboring pastor banned me from Mass for a while recently for wearing my veil (an ordinary black cotton scarf), I obeyed and stayed away two months attending daily Mass at other parishes, as soon as I returned again after that he has continued to harass me about my veil even though I am just quietly attending weekday Mass. To my mind my veil acknowledges reverently the headship of Christ the Bridegroom of the Church and that He does not reject me for not being a virgin but is risen from the dead and triumphant and can make His bride clean and holy and gives my life value. My veil reminds me of the covenant faithfulness of Jesus’ love for me, and the permanency of my consecration to Him.

      • Birgit J says:

        Thank you for sharing your amazing journey to veiling. I, too, find that certain priests do not look kindly on those of use who choose to practice this devotion. My daughter and I are the only ones in our parish and surrounding parishes as well. I find that the foreign priests are more accepting of the devotion. No priest has ever had as harsh of a reaction as that which you have had to endure – although my daughter has had a similar experience with kneeling to receive on the tongue.

  8. I was taught by nuns that we covered our heads before entering the church because of Jesus’s presence and for no other reason. The bins would stand at the door with Kleenex for girls who forgot their head covering. I was covering my head at church but felt odd and quit. There are only 2 women who do cover their heads in our parish. WHEN do you cover your head…these two don’t do it until they have gotten into the pew.

  9. Marion (Maell Mhuire) says:

    When I was a little girl, I remember wearing a little round chapel veil on top of my head, but the grown-up women wore lace mantillas. During the 1960s all seemed to give up doing so, me included. About 10 years ago, a prompting in my heart suggested re-adopting the veil. I don’t think I’ve ever seen another woman wearing one at my Novus Ordo church, and I didn’t want to be the only one, and so I steadfastly resisted for years. I mean, *for years.* Because I didn’t want to (a) stick out like a sore thumb; (b) appear to be trying to seek attention; (c) appear to think I was holier-than-thou; (d) be thought in any way “weird” or “Pharasaical” or “hypocritical.” But the prompting wouldn’t go away, and finally from past experience, I had to admit that what I was doing was ignoring a prompting from God. So, finally ordered up a veil, and have for some years been wearing it, whether am at a crowded Mass, or am the only one in the Church. I suppose I may in fact be vain, hypocritical, attention-seeking, holier-than-thou, weird, and Pharasaical, but I decided to let God deal with all that, in His own way. My job is to obey Him, and to do a good job assisting at Holy Mass. Over the ensuing few years have begun to notice a sprinkling of other women wearing veils at our church – almost all much younger than I – one “regular” is a young teen.

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